
As Mr. Beeson said, a full helson is two half nelsons applied simultaneously. The NFHS rule book does not give a formal definition for what constitutes a full nelson in terms of exact hand placement. Generally speaking though if the hand is under the shoulder and placed on the side or the top of the head this would be a nelson, so it follows that if both hands are under the shoulders and on the side or top of the opponents head, then this would be a full nelson.
Reference illustration 70 to note that the hands need not be touching or overlapping in order for the move to be considered illegal.
The dangerous nature of the move stems from the downward pressure of the neck, potentially cutting off the air supply, severe strain of the small bones of the vertebrae, and probably most dangerous is that the opponent would typically have no way to brace their themselves from the downward pressure and their head could be driven into the mat with no protection.
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