We experienced this a couple of years ago with our son, he had wrestled hard for a few years and started to get burned out. He was very busy with alot of other activities[baseball,motorcycles,lacrosse,football]. We let him make the choice to take a break from wrestling. It was a good choice for him individually, he is now wrestling with all his heart and doing great. Yes he did miss out alot technically on his wrestling skills but with great coaching by the Leavenworth County Spartans coaching staff he is now competing in age group and weight. I believe every child is unique in their own personal achievements and this issue is also an individual one. Just be positive in what ever decision is made. Good luck to all who have to jump this hurdle.