Temper tantrums are going to happen no matter what age you are. The way you act on the mat reflects your club. Not shaking a wrestlers hand throwing headgear or just walking away are all poor sportsmanship. The 8 and under kid who kicked his mom off the mat is not a clubs problem but the problem of the parents. I saw the match and the kid was going by what the fans were saying not by his ability to win the match. The tantrum was brought on by the people around the mat yelling thats 1 or that's 2 yes it might have been a bad call but you have to deal with it and move on.