I didn't see the 14 and under match in question, but it sounds like the father/coach did retrieve the kid and made him follow through with appropriate end-of-the match conduct.

I did see a semi-punch (fist did not connect with other wrestler face, but elbow did) being thrown at the end of one of the 12u finals at D1 District. The young man throwing the punch was not penalized by the offical. Perhaps it was a judgment call by the ref, but seemed flagant to us since the same wrestler had also shoved the same winner at subs the week before.

As parents and coaches, we all need to work to ensure our kids behave in a sportsman like manner. Being kids, and wrestling being an individual sport, of course they will have moments where they do not respond appropriately and at those times the parent/coach needs to step in and correct the behavior. Unfortunately, sometimes these kids are only responding similar to how they have seen their parent/coach respond.