Tell that to the kids from Columbine. The kids who shot all those kids(including a stud football player) were bullied and embarrassed in front of their peers. I guess those kids should have just toughened up right? Take it like a man right? There are other factors in that incident but the basic point is that these kind of experiences can damage kids for life. The fragile mind of a teenager is something that should not be messed with. When you wrestle like a punk, this kind of consequence comes into play. That is the whole point of the argument. Treat others like you would want to be treated, with respect. the bully never thinks about the consequences until the day comes when the little kid is bigger and stronger than the bully or armed with a gun. I know the columbine thing is a little extreme, but think about it.

P.S. Dont come back with any football or baseball arguments. Wrestling is the most intimate and visible sport there is. People are right on top of the mat, one on one competition, not even close to same.