I just have to comment. Any club, any parent, any coach, can have their "moments". I know in our club, we had plenty. We took care of it internally; which is what I think every club should do. If this "club" your talking about is who I think it is, then I respect them. Yes, they are head hunters, but everyone knows that and should know how to counter that. But you know when it comes to being disrespectful, they don't stand for it. I saw at the Novice Championships that one kid, from that "club", pushed the other kid between periods. The coach of that "club" snatched up that kid and was lecturing him (which I think more coaches and parents need to do). He made him apologize to the other wrestler, the referee, and the other coaches. Now that is what I call respect.