First of all TOHK did not even attend this tournament,for all the people the automatically assumed thats who was causing the problem.Mikes mom were you matside at Tulsa or Salina?Unless you were you probably dont know the whole story.Was our coach out of line at Salina,sure he was and he knew it immediately afterwards.He let his emotions get the better of him in the heat of the moment.You bringing up a situation that was squashed between the two clubs within 20 minutes,benefits no one.I'm not sure what you meant by being able to take your "knox" after a loss,but is a good example losing a tough finals match and then refusing to wrestle the challenge match afterwards?Every tournament we go to I see people behaving horribly,myself included.I have done and said things that I regretted,I think anybody passionate about this sport and their wrestlers has.The "jerk" of a coach you are referring to I know personally as a caring coach and very passionate person who has yes more than once or ten times lost his cool at tournaments,but when he is down matside coaching for my son I know he cares and will do whatever possible to help him win a match.So relax and dont "let the dogs out of the cage"to soon,whatever that is supposed to mean?