I believe you are way off the mark. What I think Will is trying to say is that we need to help our kids understand that they are not going to win every match and that they need to continue working hard, because it does get harder as they get older and those kids who lost at a younger age will catch up and start winning. We need to help our kids understand that they should learn from a loss instead of giving up because they have to work a little harder then when they were younger. I don't believe Will is being malicious in any way. If you have ever met him, you would know that he is very compassionate about this sport and the all the kids who wrestle in it.