First of all,congrats to your daughter,she is a heck of a wrestler,boy or girl and you should be very proud of her. As for some of your other remarks let's not get carried away,I coach baseball,football and am big supporter of kid's wrestling and will be the first to tell you girl's mature physically alot quicker than boy's so am sure they would hold an advantage but can also tell you that once you step onto that mat that girl,boy whatever it's gametime and if that means being more physical than a girl at an later age than so be it,and for the break her arm statement that is totally uncalled for and is sickning,but before you point the finger,do you approach your other fellow coaches about saying something along those same lines????? didn't think so,and I know for a fact that you have been present when things like that have went down during matches so if the shoe fits,wear it,also let's look at it from a young mans point of view,I think until they reach 10-12 range it's ok,but even then it's getting pretty physical out there as far as touching,etc....I think there are lines that should not be crossed,at that age young women should wrestle young women,period>>>>