I agree, it is very hard for my 12 year old to wrestle a girl. That is an awkward age for both and then to have them intermingled and touching areas that are to be off limits. Not to mention the fact that most parents try to teach their sons not to be aggressive towards girls. Being a woman, I am for women being allowed the same opportunities as men in sports, but wrestling is a contact sport like no other.
I hope no one takes this personally, but I just don't feel that my son should be faced with such a moral dilema at this stage in his life (teenage years).