This topic started out talking about a 6 year old girl. Now this topic has branched out into many different area's. The emotion involved in a 6 year old boy wrestler wrestling a 6 year old girl wrestler for sure seems to bother the parents more than the two children on the mat. Maybe Canton should of said "I don't know what I would of done if my boy lost to a girl". The kids many times after a match will play and forget about what happened on the mat, while the parents are still brewing over there problem. If a wrestler makes weight and steps on to the mat respect that wrestler. The two athletes should not change the intensity of the match. The wrestler that changes his or her intensity isn't repecting the other wrestler. Many boys have lost to girls, many girls have lost to boys. A win is a win a loss is a loss. If for any reason the question pops in your mind "I don't know what I would of done if my boy lost to a girl", there must be other issues with either the parent or the child. Most likely the parent! My son did loose to a girl once when he was 5 he is now 10 everthing is going ok so far.