If anybody has that big of a problem with them, then I insist that you avoid any tournaments they may be at. However, do that at your own risk because they're always going to be bringing tons of kids to state and always competing for the team title. Otherwise you're just gonna have to deal with it.
One thing you may do is pay more attention to their talented wrestlers instead of waiting for one of their coaches to do something. Their kids are talented and even more important they are made for the next level. I'd go out on a limb to say they have more college wrestlers out of their club right now than any other club in the state and I don't see that changing any time soon either. I know that without T.O.H.K. I likely wouldn't be anywhere close to the level I'm at today in my wrestling ability.