Whew! You need to calm down Deucesmom! My son has lost a many a match to bad calls, or points that weren't given to him that was supposed to be. Your son lost, deal with it period. There is always next year and the year after that. Wrestling is not your life! It's in the past, move on. Yes, I get mad too when my son loses to a bad call. I walk it off, before I say something I would regret. All I tell him is that it was not his fault. If he gave me 100% out on the mat and he had fun, then that is waht counts.