My son has lost many matches because the ref hasn't given him the points or calls that maybe they should have but he is the wrestler and not the ref. I just want him to wrestle his best and make sure that when he does what needs to be done he will be given the points.

You will always have judgement calls in this sport. I believe you should ask if a kid doesn't get the points or calls but you should also take what the ref says into consideration and show good sportsmanship and leadership even if you don't like their answer.

I feel that this is just part of the sport.