A lot going on related to the death, my wife did the original posts as I had very limited internet availability when I suddenly had to leave. Thanks to all, some of the events posted here:

I Hate This Crap
TVP – http://thevirtualpew.blogspot.com/2009/06/i-hate-this-crap.html

Last Update, Goodbye Mom
TVP – http://thevirtualpew.blogspot.com/2009/06/latest-update-goodbye-mom.html

The Last Conversation with My Mom
TVP – http://thevirtualpew.blogspot.com/2009/06/my-last-conversation-with-my-mom.html

(sorry for the "shameless promotion" but according to responses at various web sites these types of things seem to help some folks, that is the intent, that hopefully helps some and understanding.)