we all have to come to the realization its not how they do now. all this wrestling is preperation for them before highschool. i just hope my 2 boys want to wrestle into highschool. i fight it every year with the other sport that they also like. i let them do both but one of these days they will have to decide. it would kill me if they choose not to wrestle but it will be they're choice and as long as they are doing whatever they are successful in and not out running the streets and doing drugs or other things i will be grateful of that.