They can't decide to carry on or not after only 4 or 5, or 45, tourneys. You have to keep them out, win lose or draw. It does NOT matter until they get to high school. Sure we all want our kids to win state championships in kids wrestling, but lots of kids are late bloomers, and will catch up to the other kids once they mature and the "light comes on".

Don't make me tell my Bradley Little story again, I don't want him to get a big head........