Living vicariously. How can you help it? My wife and I have wrestled each and every match with our sons. We have been at it for 12 years now and it hasnever changed. If my youngest son decides to wrestle until he is out of high school, we will be doing it for another fourteen. I gaurentee that the butterflies I feel now before my older sons matches will still be fluttering around in 14 years. I love this stuff!