first off I did not say anything about the other school having to pay for what happened to Mike arm or being hit by the other wrestler, what I did say was that happened to one of our wrestlers years ago and there was a bill that had to be paid by the other school and if was going to court before it was selted out of court. Not at anytime did I say anything about the school or the wrestler having to pay for what happened and your right Mikes arm was not hurt from getting hit, and I also did not know that the dad was the coach and it does not matter but at the same time the kid new better and it could have cost Mike a chance for a better place and as far as the coach he feels bad enough without every one taking sides. there should not be a side to take it was a thing that can happen and you and I know it will happen again somewhere down the line and if just one kid reads this and it helps him then its worth it to talk and write. I have seen coachs in the Kids wrestling program get so mad that some times they don't understand and also parents can put so much on winning and do anything to win knowing that they have to go home and face there parents.
this is in reply to Quagmire . I have been a coach in the kids program for over 20 years and belive me I have seen it all.