I myself have had no prior wrestling exp. till my 7 yr old started this year. My son and my entire family as well as myself had the time of our lives this season. Jacob (my son)had a good year and when lost a certain match he showed bad sportsmanship by throwing gear and stomping off mat without shaking coaches hands. upsetting his coaches and myself rightfully so. But since that time he has acted better when loosing a match. I feel some people have giving up on him due to 1 mistake. From what i hear on this post is that no matter what these kids cannot feel that they can't move forward from a mistake. From what i hear on post the kids are what it is about. I have wittnessed some of the tohk attidude at numerous tourney's and know that not all were of their own actions but other having personal issues with them. But i don't believe they don't give up on any of thier kids. I truly hope my son wrestles next year. He truly feels for his team and teammates and loves their comradery? Thanks for inviting us to become part of your world Kansas Wrestling. Sorry if I got of subject. David Rymer