And if I'm needing to weigh in on the first night of a two day tourney, I'm probably not wanting to wrestle for 15 seconds, I'll want to get some work in. Am I supposed to take the guy down, and ride him the rest of the period, and ride him the second period, and get an escap in the third, so I only win 3-0, so his feelings aren't hurt?

Like most things in life, and like someone on this thread said, I can't define it, but I know when it isn't right............Use common sense.