Rford and L.Geyer hit it perfectly. It all about the attitude in which it is done. My kids have enormous amounts of respect for a wrestlers attitude. Give them one with respect for sport and opponents instead of a "hah, I'm a beast" competitor anyday.
Nothing comes from demeaning an opponent. Get your moves in then move on. If you work the same move over and over to demean someone, can you really call that mat time. Use your mat time wisely.