Smokey:

I have coached youth sports now for 6 years. I don't disagree with the idea of having "fun". However, teaching and coaching for this time has convinced me that success comes from hard work and real "fun" comes from achievement. Work hard, put up the video games, and stop believing that every activity you commit to is for your amusement and entertainment. A lot of kids are looking for a sense of purpose. If we help them find that they will stay.