So only a ref can enforce this type of penalty? this happened in front of fans and wrestlers in the stands well away from any refs on the mats. no dog in this fight but I seen the taunting post and just had to ask.


Only the official can enforce the wrestling rule. No one else can assess the penalty. But that doesn't mean other adults cannot take action -- coach, parent, school administrator--all might have more influence over the situation. Probably the person with the least amount of impact on the kid will be the official. Having a coach take you by the ear makes a lot bigger impression---at least that's my recollection.