You have just won a hard match. Your excited. Your opponent is not. Quit trying to hug him after the match. He shook your hand, that is all he is required to do. Quit trying to hug him. Act like you have won a tough match before. Quit trying to hug your opponent. I sure don't want anyone hugging me after a tough loss. Quit trying to hug your opponent. Be a good sport, shake hands, and walk off the mat. Quit trying to hug your opponent.