Here is one for you. What about giving you hand to the kid to help him up. My son had a kid that stomped us put his hand out and help my son off the mat. My son has now started to do this,all the time.Even if he has lost he still puts his hand out if the boy was on bottom.
He has had about 80% take his hand win or loose.Some get real mad if they are loosing and will not get help up.

What do you all think ?