Ok, ok. This is what I know from being a part of kids/high school wrestling. 90 % of these kids have been wrestling each other year in and year out, since age of 5. Warriors on the mat, friends off the mat. Each kid looks out for the other, no matter what team they wrestle for. Loosing sucks, I get it. But who are we to decide, if they give each other a QUICK hug after the match. Seems a moot subject.