Coach,
The most important thing is to get these youngsters to continue wrestling all the way through high school, and for the best of the bunch another level above that. If you have a wrestler that has the tools early on but doesn't compete or complete a high school career, what does it really matter how good they were when they were in diapers? There are exceptions for a number of reasons and I get that. I just want parents and coaches to know that early success does not always lead to a productive high school career (or beyond).