There is two ways to look at it.One is your way.If you are stuck with a sucky club run by a dictator,live with it.The 2nd is if you would like to get better and branch out find a club you fit in and get good.As a family we wanted to get better.

It is just fact. If a club sucks they will loose kids every year till they change things. If a club is good they will get bigger every year till they change things.I know every one knows a club that was good and now is not. Dew to what ever reasons.