I agree with discipline. However we also need to realize they are still boys. How many of us were adults and made perfect adult choices at the age of 12/13/14/15/16? They are handling a rush of emotions (that honestly some of us adults a these tournaments don't handle to well) I don't expect my wrestler to be perfect either. What's important (imo) is what happens after- discipline/discussion/apologies. It takes a pretty big person to walk up to the ref/other coach/other kid and 1) admit you acted like a fool, and 2) to apologize for that behavior. The discipline is not for a talk forum to decide. That's a coaches and parents job. Again- Just my opinion.