I will be the first to make sure that if a Ref is doing a good job whether or not my team wins my wrestlers will shake the refs hand. As for last Sat at Dist 2 my son was one to head home very mad and thinking that the ref had something against him. When we stepped on the mat he was already upset by the fact that the ref was one in which wrestled with him a couple of years ago. He had a controlled take down for over 30 seconds and refused to give him the points. In the 3rd period he had the crossbody ride and had met the criteria for back points and the ref refused to give it to him. The only thing I know is my son is not going to state and he did his job and should have but on the other hand the ref is not going to state either. at least there will be 1 less bad official at state this year.