The problem is that the ref does not really have that option when a wrestler is down on the leg. He is obligated by rule to move up. It is his obligation and if he doesn't, by rule, he is to be called for stalling. I was one of the worst at yelling at officials when they were wrong but in this case, if he had called a stalemate he would have been making up a call that is not, in fact, the rule. You just can't have it both ways, you can't yell at them for not knowing the rules and then critisize them for applying them the way the rules state. That ref was right and if you know me, you know it takes a lot for me to say that sometimes and some of the refs that read this will be laughing out loud reading that I wrote it but in this particular case, like it or not, that ref was exactly right.