I do not know if the real name is necessary, I do appreciate a legitimate way to contact the person making the post. I know that negative and untrue things are sometimes said and it is not possible to contact the person to either clarify a point or confront them on the negative or untrue thing that was said. The principle of being able to do this is a requirement of most everyone’s faith as well as what I would consider human decency. I do agree with Coakley here, without a willingness to be identified or contacted in someway, a person making a comment anonymously is not respected as much. There was one particular post that even Coakley and I disagreed on on another forum thread. It just goes to show though that you can disagree with someone on one point and agree on another and still get along. If not given the opportunity and requirement to exhibit some form of adult behavior, then adult behavior should not be expected and we will not be as susceptible to learning anything, much less teaching that appropriate behavior to the kids that wrestle.