The only solution to the problem seems to be, not allowing High School wrestlers to participate in the kids state tournament, that apparently would make every parent happy. I on the other had am a high school wrestler, and in my eight grade year I won the 14 and under bracket at state facing freshman. It doesn't matter how old you are, its how much heart, determination, and skill you have. Most of us High School wrestlers come from kids, and alot of those kids look to us for inspirtaion as an older kid who will take the time to work with them and talk to them. I know I did. Maybe you guys should just not worry about who is wrestling and just let your kids wrestle. That is the only way you can get better, by wrestling the best.