In general there is some legitimacy to the original post but it wasn't being written in general. While wrestling is taking place then the official should focus 100% of his attention on this his mat. Between matches is it okay to look elsewhere while the table is preparing for the next match? There will be some bad calls no matter what but to segregate those who want to officiate and bring their kids to a tournament is not acceptable. You can do both and should be allowed to do both if you are able to focus.