Now I'll finish my reply and not hit the send button. It's tuff on any parent to watch their kid wrestle. I've been the wrestler, the coach, the parent, and been announcing the match over the air while my son is wrestling on the mat. Try having your son on the mat wrestling your nephew,(his first cousin), your wife in the stands, your wife's first cousin as the opposing coach and you announcing the match on the radio. All it takes is self control and remember the word SPORTSMANSHIP.