Lisa - No offense but your comments didn't make sense. You say the family is intense because "that is the only way the boys will go to college". Wake up!!! College wrestling is on the way out. By the time those boys get to college there will be very few college wrestling programs in this country. The number of programs have been cut in half this decade. The majority of kids who do wrestle in college get very little financial support. Very few get a full ride. If going to college was the main concern of the family then they would do better to take the kids out of wrestling and take the money they would save on practices, tournaments and etc. and put it in a college fund. And another thing: The "Golden Rule" is do onto others as you would have them do onto you. It has nothing to do with remaining silent. Maybe AC Heat should learn the Golden Rule.