I think you should talk to your mother about wrestling. Try to have an adult conversation with her and talk to her as an equal instead of a mother. Give her your reasons for wanting to wrestle and also acknowledge her reasons for not wanting you to wrestle. I have grown up with my girl cousin wrestling. Hell she kicked my butt all the way up till my 8th grade year. I think women have just as much right in the sport as men do. But they should be able to take the same punishment and give it out to. I hope your mom realizes that you love the sport and allows you to participate in the greatest sport ever!