So college recruiters will only look at junior high kids and only pick the ones who win National titles? I know of three kids who won State and placed at national tournaments who are not even wrestling anymore.

If you really want to know what you should do to help your son or daughter get a college sports scholarship then you need to go to your local library and check out the book titled
"High School Athlete's Guide to College Sports: How to market yourself" by College Bound.